2008年11月12日

孩子

从忙碌的政治活动退下来,
日子是相对的显得清闲了许多。
于是,待在家里的时间长了,
和孩子的互动与交流也频密了。

看着孩子渐渐的长高、
看她培养了阅读的习惯、
看她学会了踏脚车、
看她会安排自己的时间和功课、
看她如何巧妙地和她老爸开口要求东西、
看她。。。。
慢慢的长大。

我很希望孩子能快乐的成长,
期望她能刻苦、勤劳、有毅力、感恩、惜福。
回首看看,好多好多年前,
我们的父母又曾对我们有着怎样的期望呢?
而我们是否都一一的实现了呢?
是否一路走来都没有让他们有太大的忧虑和失望?

多年前听这首歌--《孩子》,
让我有很深刻的感触。
昨天和孩子谈谈生活,
谈谈我的童年和青少年、
谈谈孩子的学校生活和将来。

昨夜,
再听《爱的代价》这首歌--
走吧 走吧 人总要学着自己长大
走吧 走吧 人生难免经历苦痛挣扎
走吧 走吧 为自己的心找一个家
也曾伤心流泪 也曾黯然心碎
这是爱的代价

19 条评论:

Lexus 说...

幸福人生!

JoanneChong 说...

为自己的心找一个家.
对的,我们要为我们的心找个家。

kmsiah 说...

平凡就是幸福。老兄,多珍惜眼前人。

匿名 说...

很幸福,点点滴滴的相处
很幸福,有你陪伴走的路

人生路,许多苦
因为有你,不孤独。。

你是父母的宝库
在成长中
希望你平安幸福

孩子
请记住
我们永远爱你
要你幸福

p/s : 看了你的blog,真的感触。。
我问自己,跟孩子有多少时间相处,
随笔。。记下心路。。

祝福你, 要幸福!!

angel

高猪 说...

感动!好想跟孩子说:“我的孩子,爸爸锡锡...”

鍾某 说...

我不會為了其它事物而放棄跟我的寶貝女兒相處的時間!孩子的成長需要父母親的陪伴。坦白說,我們能夠陪她們多久?孩子漸漸長大,也表示他們離開我們的日子越來越近,再過幾年,我們就會好像我們的父母一樣,只能期望孩子多回家,希望孩子能夠多跟自己在一起。那種失落的感覺是無法用語言來形容。看著女兒長大,我的內心是復雜的。我只能用【悲欣交集】來形容。

lyss 说...

你使我想起了ABBA的其中一首歌,Slipping through my fingers.在此和你分享这首歌:

Schoolbag in hand
She leaves home in the early morning
Waving goodbye
With an absent-minded smile
I watch her go
With a surge of that well-known sadness
And I have to sit down for a while
The feeling that I'm loosing her forever
And without really entering her world
I'm glad whenever I can share her laughter
That funny little girl

Slipping through my fingers all the time
I try to capture every minute
The feeling in it
Slipping through my fingers all the time
Do I really see what's in her mind
Each time I think I'm close to knowing
She keeps on growing
Slipping through my fingers all the time

Sleep in our eyes
Her and me at the breakfast table
Barely awake
I let precious time go by
Then when she's gone
There's that odd melancholy feeling
And a sense of guilt
I can't deny
What happened to the wonderful adventures
The places I had planned for us to go
Well some of that we did
But most we didn't
And why I just don't know

Sometimes I wish that I could freeze the picture
And save it from the funny tricks of time
Slipping through my fingers -

这可说是每个父母的心声,对吗?

y.fp 说...

愚公之女,想必是聪慧乖巧的女孩。
我也希望自己的孩子平安快乐就好,即使辛苦,也《心甘情愿》:
“当我偷偷,放开你的手,看你小心的学会了走。你心中不明白离愁,于是快乐地不回头。简单的事,简单的要求,最怕看见你把泪儿流,原来是没有梦的我,如今却被你来感动.....”

negarakita.com 说...

我喜欢《爱的代价》这首歌。

雪山锺某 说...

Angel,

I like this song very much!!!

http://www.1ting.com/player/3c/player_217215.html

很幸福 点点滴滴的相处 
很幸福 不会就这样结束
人生路 许多苦 因為有你 不孤独
很幸福 一起期待的日出 
很幸福 有你陪伴的寒暑
往事 再回顾 未来 永不落幕
献上我最真的祝福 展望前程长路
哪怕现实残酷 别任命运将你束缚
希望你能展翅飞舞 往更远的路途
在那回忆的深处 有著我们之间
最真的祝福
孔睦寰 - 很幸福2008(伴唱)
很幸福 一起期待的日出 
很幸福 有你陪伴的寒暑
往事 再回顾 未来 永不落幕
献上我最真的祝福 展望前程长路
哪怕现实残酷 别任命运将你束缚
希望你能展翅飞舞 往更远的路途
在那回忆的深处 有著我们之间
献上我最真的祝福 展望前程长路
哪怕现实残酷 别任命运将你束缚
希望你能展翅飞舞 往更远的路途
在那回忆的深处 有著我们之间
最真的祝福
有著我们之间
最真的祝福

PL 说...

Dear Tiong Gee,

Not sure you still remember me, I am a year or 2 your senior in Keat Hwa. Haven't heard news of you since I left KH in 1988, until I accidentally found your 愚公移山blogspot through various links from KH7883.

How many children do you have and how old is your daughter now? Guess she is at the most precious stage of her growing life.... Yes I agree with some readers here, I enjoy reading your 'soft' articles more as I am not politically inclined. And yes, you must always keep touch with your inner-self from time to time, no matter who you've become.

Bye for now and take care.
Phaik Leng

匿名 说...

突然想起齊豫的《女人和小孩》....

yaya

PL 说...

Correction, meant to say "we must always keep in touch with our inner-self no matter who we have become, at what stage of our lives" :-)

愚公移山 说...

PL:
歡迎你的到訪。
你88年時念upper 6 嗎?
有位女兒,念小學了。

PL 说...

Hi Teong Gee,

Hello again.

No, I actually left KH after SPM in 1987, went back very briefly for Sixth Form and switched to another school to do STPM in art stream. So am I 1 or 2 year your senior then? I really lost track with time.

Your daughter has started school, bet she is a real bundle of joy. Juggling between family and a demanding profession, getting very involved in politic, and yet you managed to write a lot on this blog staying in touch with your inner-self. You have done very well in the balancing act apparently!

Thank you and bye.

愚公移山 说...

PL:
Then you are one year my senior.
I left KH after my STPM in 1990.
How is life?Where are you?

匿名 说...

雪山钟某,
按照你给于的网址,我才想起在一位朋友的车里听过这首歌。在听的当时很感动,想到如果我们在日常生活中可以善解包容感恩知足,生活也就不会苦。歌词虽入心,重要的还是能将法入心。谢谢你。

angel

PL 说...

Just 1 year, ok, don't feel that old after all ;-)

Life is good 比上不足,比下有余 can't complain! 该要时时感恩,惜福!

Like you I went to Kelantan too after Sixth Form, was there between1989 and 1992, but not in Kubang Kerian. I was doing accountancy in polytechnic in Ketereh, never bumped into you in KB, huh? Then I came to London to further my studies under a 2-year programme but till now, mother of 2 I am still here! I do go home on regular basis, my root is still there!
Bye for now, best regards. /PL

jiubo 说...

婴孩时,希望他平安成长;
童年时,盼望他快高长大;
青年时,期盼他学业有成;
成年后,鼓励他事业有成就,立业后成家......
一路走来,人生就是如此而已。

恭喜您,也祝福您阖家安康!